Our Daddy Isn't Keeping Score: Understanding Christian Perfectionism
I built a scoreboard God never asked for, and spent years checking it every morning. Turns out our Daddy isn't keeping score. He's keeping the door open.
Life Lessons
The Worry Glass
Someone once told a simple story that has refused to leave my mind. A teacher stood in front of his students holding a clear glass filled…
Why Talking Doesn’t Mean Drama: The Case for Hard Conversations
Maybe I say things too softly or to loudly. Maybe my silence becomes a blank page people write their own story on.
Adulthood Is Not a Race, Abeg; What I Wish I Knew at 20
Nobody warned me. I just woke up one day and realised I was in a silent, invisible competition I didn’t sign up for. A race. To get a…
With a Heavy Heart
She didn’t scream. She didn’t throw anything or curse the heavens. She just stood there, in the middle of the room, phone in hand, heart…
Let Your Talents Shine, Because You're Lit, Fam!
Do you ever find yourself downplaying your talents and abilities, just like I used to do? You see, I've always been a creative soul,…
My Source
The past few weeks have been plagued by a lot. In fact, more than a few weeks if I'm being honest. The past months have been a lot for my…
It's Okay to Feel
Hi there family members! Long time no post/content/blog? It's been a hot minute since I last poured out my thoughts on paper. So, how's…
To the Parent, Teacher, Sibling, or Anyone Who Loves Someone with Autism
This one is personal. It’s not research-based. It’s not a textbook explanation. It’s not even a perfectly worded letter. It’s just truth —…
The Perfect Recipe
Over the years I have gathered a sufficient amount of kitchen knowledge from my mom, most of our bonding moments are with the cooker and heat extractor and maybe a couple of pots and spoons.
To cat-walk or to run
Disobedience has many ways of kicking you in the rib cage, especially those little little "tombolo" ones... like it will just hit you without expectation.